Tuesday, August 7, 2007

AHHH, the lake!

   I was sitting here trying to decide whether to do a post tonite or not.  I'm kinda tired, but just can't get the thoughts to settle.  So, if I write, maybe they'll quiet down.  I've been doing alot of thinking about things I could do entries about.  I did promise not to whine, moan, or groan here, so that take half the fun out of the things running through my head. ; ) 

   Tonight, after a shift that had LOTS of floor mopping(and sweating),  I stopped at the lake to go swimming.  I go to North Higgins Lake State Park.  This lake is in my fond memories of childhood, and one of the reasons for coming home.  Tonight, I was reminded why.  I met a man and his two sons.  They were camping for the night, on their way home from the U.P.  (Upper Peninsula of Michigan).  They had seen some of the most beautiful places the U.P. had to offer, but the things he kept talking about were the memories of coming here on vacation as a child, and the adventures of those trips.  His face was aglow with the memories. He kept repeating, how beautiful this lake is and how he used to waterski, and swim here.  I told him that I live about 8 miles away and that I come here often.  Not only to swim, but to listen to the waves, and watch the sky change color in the evening.  How I find comtemplation and peace here.  I feel a connection that I feel nowhere else.  We talked about our induvidual lives, and his sons were introduced.  The youngest, walking around with binoculars, swearing he'd just spotted an eagle.  Probably not, but I told him it was certainly possible.  The older son, running up with a shell, or feather for examination and addition to his collection.  I have several of those in my collection at home.  Dad asked me how to remind his sons of this beautiful place, which he has loved for years, I said "Just tell them how much it meant to you to be able to show them this place of your childhood memories" and to save a few of those shells and feathers.  Seeing them together reminded me of the first time I brought my son to this same park.  Well, actually the second, he was too young to remember the first, being only 2.  He  came for 10 days over the 4th of July in 2005.  We went swimming and stayed to watch the fireworks over the lake.  That turned out to be the last ones to be held there.  Anyway, he told me that he now understood why I would never go swimming in Ohio.(yucky water)  I explained that it was more than just the beauty.  That this lake will always be a part of me.   I'll always remember camping, meeting kids that you never saw again, but were the best of friends with for that short period of time.  The smell of the campfires, listening to the crickets and other critters(nope, don't want to know what they were), eating way too many burnt marshmellows.  I'd like to say Thank You to Brian, Alexander, and Andrew, for reminding me just exactly why.   

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

Oh... what a lovely story for you to share!!!  It made me smile and actually brought tears to my eyes!

Glad you met some wonderful folks that helped you remember more clearly!

be well,
Dawn
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Anonymous said...

That was a great story......It sounds like it brought back a lot of fond memories for you. Very nice. It's a good, warm, fuzzy feeling.
Camping has a feel all its own that is like nothing else....smells and sights and sounds. It's one of those things that if you have to explain to someone, they will never undertsand.
Loking forward to hearing more about your adventures.

                                 Sunny

Anonymous said...

We have plenty of deer but they don't come this close in.
We are surrounded by hundred of acres and they keep their distance.
The biggest thing I have seen so far is a stray bull who has been wandering around. I don't know who he belongs to. I wish is owners would come and get him before he gets hurt or hurts someone.

                                  Sunny

Anonymous said...

Welcome to J-Land!  Glad you decided to keep a public journal.  -Dawn-

Anonymous said...

What a wonderful memory and feelings of the lake.  Being in Michigan, I imagine it's one of the "Great Lakes" is it not?  Do you go swimming by yourself a lot?  Is it safe that way?  I know it's hard starting over, done it myself after a divorce, but I don't think I could ever move back "home".  I've changed too much since HS and am very independent (too much so sometimes).  Good have to have you "public" in J-Land.  De ;)http://journals.aol.com/erarein63/DesThoughts/

Anonymous said...

What beautiful memories! I envy you the love you had growing up, having such a beautiful place full of those memories. Hold tight to these, angels sing of splendor such as this. It's not so much the place, but where is exist within you. (Hugs) Indigo

Anonymous said...

Glad you posted.  Higgins is such a beautiful lake, and makes for some fond memories.  Glad to hear of others enjoying the lake :)

Anonymous said...

Sounds like good memories.
Take care, Chrissie

Anonymous said...

Hello, found my way here via Indigo and Dawn (The Princess). What makes a person return repeatedly to a place when there are so many beautiful, magical places on this Earth to discover?... A question the elder daughter of our clan would ask repeatedly as we returned to the Mississippi Headwaters on a regular basis. My answer, the memories we forged there and have left as invisible handprints all over that dearly beloved locale. It can be a spot a beautfiul North Higgins or the UP or as simple as a city park or even "the Reading Tree," a favorite respite for our middle daughter. It is a tree, left to grow and send roots deep into a field used for soccer and rugby at the edge of a locale University. Even as a young adult she still returns to "her Reading Tree" for respite. What makes it "hers" is the memories she has planted there... just as you have done at North Higgins, and  Brian & Co left at the UP.

May you seed the world with fond and indelible memories.
Michael

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